Can't join friends in Grounded
Grounded ties co-op to Xbox Live even on Steam. Both players need an Xbox/Microsoft account signed in.
- Check and fix your NAT type — Strict NAT is the #1 cause of 'can't join friends'. You need Moderate or Open to host and to receive invites reliably.
- On Steam: Settings → In-Game → check the 'NAT' indicator, or test via Steam's network settings.
- On Xbox: Settings → General → Network settings → 'NAT type'.
- On PlayStation: Settings → Network → View Connection Status → 'NAT Type'.
- If Strict: enable UPnP and/or port-forward (see those fixes). Tether to a phone hotspot once to confirm — if it works there, the issue is your home router.
- Use the lobby / join code instead of a friend invite — Steam and platform friend-invites fail far more often than copy-paste codes. Most co-op games have a 'share lobby code' button.
- Host creates the lobby, then copies the lobby/join code (not the friend invite).
- Send the code in chat; the joiner pastes it into 'Join with code'.
- If invites still fail, this bypasses the broken invite pipeline entirely.
- Sign in with your Xbox/Microsoft account even on Steam, then invite through the Xbox friends list.
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